AS and KG gave you great advice. I forgot how identical HIS behavior is to his past actions. See that as a gift of clarity Lisa---B/C he's NOT CHANGING HIS STRIPES! HE'S THE SAME AS BEFORE.
He's a clueless, cruel, self centered serial cheater...sure, he had his charms,
but you deserve more & now you have self respect & boundaries & you have grown...
So NO, history will NOT REPEAT ITSELF THIS TIME! You are not powerless. You can/will make different choices.
Your kids can reach him in an emergency & the lawyers can handle the rest. There is NO good reason for you to engage with him. Block away!
I would also ignore ALL his contacts (unless there's something about the kids AND the ONLY way to discuss it, is directly w/him)
it's hard to see why YOU would need to reply to ANY of his probes/"property claims" vis a vis you, OR his odd flirting/manipulative power moves...
I think he;s probably got a borderline personality disorder, which is a diagnosis w/liitle hope for change. He's bad news for any woman in his life. Keep your kids from becoming him, if you can.
I'm glad you realize you CAN "block" him. If OW were so satisfying, why would he flirt? Oh, b/c he's "entitled" to? That is so weird!
Use the image of a STOP SIGN when thoughts of them cross your mind. STOP & then inserta busy activity or GAL plan and OR DO something that requires your concentration... with just a little, consistent effort, this does get easier
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
