"I already went through those." " What about these?" I said of the first Christmas ornaments. Since she wouldn't out and say she did not want to put up the marriage ornaments I went ahead and put them on the tree. She also got pissy about me putting my childhood ornaments on he tree (she tried setting them aside in another box) even though hers were going up. I sure as hell put mine up too. With a smile and jimming of a Christmas tune.
Quote:
“the greatest burden a child must bear is the unlived life of the parents” Carl Jung
Or the immaturity of the parents!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!