I am alot stronger than in the past but I do get where you are coming from. Block him out to not even put myself in that position. I don't want this see saw anymore. I am just amazed that he has the you know what's to do this testing waters again.

You are spot on. Texts will be blocked I won't answer the phone and communicate about kids through email. Problem solved. This is the kind of support I need. Please guys keep calling me out and keep me straight.

This might not be a marriage saved success story but it will be a LBS getting her life together success story.

Lisa

Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12