Lisa - Please go back and re-read your old threads from years ago. This is the EXACT same dynamic you had with him before. You would let him go between being aggressive and abusive to then him making sexual advances and innuendos to you. You would start answering like today and eventually give in.
You come here today, like you did years ago asking what you should do. People would tell you to change your behavior, focus on yourself, get him as far away from your life as you can possibly do, given you have kids with him. Yet you would still give in to him and respond to his baiting you just like today.
How did that work for you in the past?
Are you really ready to do something different?
I will repeat the same advice you have been given for years. DO NOT answer his phone calls or texts. Let your VM pick up and only get back to him when related to kids / administrative.
Lisa - please, you need to be way stronger than that...
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
