great thanks AnotherStander. how is your stich going?
There were some new developments yesterday and today, seems W is having second thoughts about leaving. Not sure where it's going yet. I updated my thread with the info.
Originally Posted By: ForMyHusband
I sometimes worry about being too vague because one of the issues is my H lack of trust in me due to my own MLC. He loves me but is scared I will break his heart. So I try not to be too vague about what im doing and where im going, I thought this would be a good way to rebuild the trust. What do you think?
Well that does make sense. Michele warns in DR that we need to be careful of "more of the same" behavior, and if some of the DB steps can be interpreted by our spouse as "more of the same" then perhaps a different approach is required. That may be the case with you.
