Another question about GALing - I think I did the right thing here. My D and I have plans tonight to go to a spice party (baking and stuff) at my girlfriends house. Her kids are going to be home so I will have some grown up time and my D will have some time with her friends.
H emailed me last night and said he would call or stop by on his way home from work tonight as hes going out of town and literally drives right by our home to go to where he is living now. My response to him was "Actually D and I are going to XX house tonight...."
I think this was the right thing to do, i'm not supposed to sit and "wait" for him right? I made plans and im not going to change them for him. I just worry that he thinks im trying to keep D away from him but he was the one who left so she is my responsibility full time now.
Yeah, you did fine on that. Next time be even more vague, just say something like "Actually D and I already have plans." If he asks what you're doing say "going to a party at a friend's house." That sort of thing. Be a bit mysterious.
