Hey Busting....just wanted to comment on the potential move. You said the reason you'd consider the move was because you didn't want the kids to be that far from your H.
You do realize that no matter what YOU want for your kids with regards to H, it's H's responsibility right? If it was a concern for him, why would he move? If you move and he's traveling constantly, how's it any different? If you move and then he decides to move again, will you continue to follow?
I completely agree with the idea of considering what is best for your kids, but he's got to be part of that. Truth be told, what's best for your kids is your H to get his head on straight and R with you. If he's not in for that, then I think you have to do what is best for you. As others have told me, what's best for you is ultimately best for your kids so go with that and let the rest fall where it will.
