ok thanks very much. My D doesnt say or do anything at all when he is around, I think she's just so happy that he is there. The only thing she has said to him since he left over a week ago now is "Daddy why did you move out" and he said "because mommy and I werent getting along so daddy had to move out for a while". That was it.
I have been telling him about functions me and D are going to, ie like Christmas parade but have not been inviting him, more of a "youre welcome to come". Im getting through Divorce Remedy book, been doing alot of writing, and waiting to get to the 180s section which im almost at.
Alot of people think im stupid but I REFUSE to give up and one thing I am is stubborn.