No. That was a correction from the previous post where my phone substituted the word, Scheduled, instead of, Ulterior.
Let him find out from your D himself about how she is being affected.
He will still rationalize it anyways, as most WAS's seem to project. But, you have No control over his interpretations.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012