One final note, when my W was asking aobut whether I told people about our situation (family/friends), she has now shifted her comments to "Do whatever you want, I don't really care who you tell". So now I'm a bit more confused on what her true thoughts are on this point.
M-49 W-47 M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994 No Children 4 dogs/2 cats EA 11/2010 Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us) As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...