What is your current game plan for her seeing the kids?

I struggle w this b/c my H moved out 3 weeks ago & has been at our house every day including almost the whole days on the weekends. I know this is GOOD for my boys but it doesn't give him a reality check of what life will be like down the line if OW is in picture.

Would like to know your thoughts.

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.