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Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride someguy1233 #2302673 11/26/12 05:57 PM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435 S someguy1233 OP Member
OP someguy1233 Member S Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435	I was reading Denver's comments in another thread relating to Plan A vs Plan B. It really hit me as I feel like I'm sitting in Plan A. I'm trying to be the rock or lighthouse shining the way home for my W. I'm nearly always a happy person around her. I help hold the household together. But this may simply be enabiling her to never make any decision. I really wonder how long I should continue this behavior. Especially with the possibility of OM. I've been strongly debating bringing up possible OM to W. But every time I ask myself what good would come from confirming it (assuming she'd tell the truth)? I don't think it'd be usefull unless I had my mind made up to either leave her or go through exposure, etc. M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done

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Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/06/12 02:45 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/06/12 02:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	AnotherStander	11/06/12 03:58 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	2chiquitos	11/06/12 04:14 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/07/12 02:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/07/12 06:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/08/12 02:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/08/12 03:49 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	AnotherStander	11/08/12 04:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/08/12 05:50 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/08/12 07:56 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/09/12 02:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	NickB	11/09/12 02:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/09/12 02:56 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/09/12 03:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	littleGTO	11/09/12 05:16 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Bestgal	11/12/12 03:06 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/12/12 03:00 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/12/12 05:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/13/12 12:33 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 03:17 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 03:37 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 11:57 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/13/12 01:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 02:20 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/13/12 02:20 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 06:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 06:24 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/13/12 10:57 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/14/12 04:06 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 02:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 02:17 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/14/12 05:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/14/12 06:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 08:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 08:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 02:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 03:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 04:02 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 05:09 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 06:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 06:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 08:33 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 09:07 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/16/12 02:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/16/12 03:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	eyesopen	11/16/12 03:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/16/12 04:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/16/12 06:27 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/16/12 07:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/16/12 07:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/17/12 03:33 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/17/12 09:49 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/17/12 10:48 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 04:46 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/18/12 01:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/18/12 01:42 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 02:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/18/12 02:50 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 09:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 09:17 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/19/12 10:45 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/19/12 02:41 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/19/12 02:47 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/19/12 04:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/19/12 10:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/19/12 10:28 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 01:03 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	MKB23	11/20/12 01:01 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 01:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 02:06 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 02:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	MKB23	11/20/12 02:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/20/12 02:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/20/12 02:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 03:00 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/20/12 03:06 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 02:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 02:35 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 03:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/20/12 04:06 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 06:35 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	MrBond	11/20/12 07:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 07:36 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/20/12 08:48 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/21/12 02:25 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/21/12 03:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/26/12 05:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/26/12 05:57 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/26/12 06:00 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/26/12 06:50 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 02:12 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 02:30 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 02:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/27/12 04:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 04:54 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 01:44 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 07:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 11:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:49 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 07:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 08:48 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/28/12 09:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 11:05 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 02:24 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/04/12 02:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:32 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:30 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:24 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 02:52 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 03:11 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:12 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 07:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 11:16 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 02:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 02:37 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/29/12 07:34 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 08:07 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 08:12 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 08:20 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/30/12 01:31 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/30/12 02:24 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/30/12 03:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/30/12 05:40 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	justjudy	11/30/12 07:01 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/03/12 02:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	12/03/12 02:37 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/03/12 02:54 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	12/03/12 03:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/03/12 09:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	12/03/12 11:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	sandi2	12/04/12 12:08 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	12/04/12 02:44 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	12/04/12 02:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/05/12 08:18 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/06/12 02:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/07/12 02:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/08/12 06:38 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/10/12 07:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/11/12 05:02 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/11/12 03:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/11/12 04:05 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/11/12 10:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/12/12 03:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/13/12 04:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	eyesopen	12/13/12 05:34 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/13/12 11:26 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/14/12 02:36 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	AnotherStander	12/14/12 04:07 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/14/12 09:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/17/12 02:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/17/12 10:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/18/12 11:59 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/21/12 11:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Michele Weiner-Davis	12/23/12 04:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/30/12 08:51 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/04/12 02:58 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/04/12 03:02 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/04/12 06:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	12/04/12 08:42 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/05/12 08:03 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/05/12 08:01 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 02:14 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/16/12 07:16 PM

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