Hmmm. Here is something weird that just happened.
Backstory-This morning mentioned to H some DVDs I bought on my trip and was looking forward to watching.

This evening he said, are you watching movies tonight, I said yes. He said then if its alright I invited X and Y over for a few drinks... (X and Y are the husbands of my close and dear gfriends). Before I knew it, I just said sure, no problem.

I wish now I set a boundary, but I was really taken aback. Its one thing for him to have his friends over when I am away and he is staying here.

I don't mind in principle if it means he feels comfortable here, and I am not taking this as a sign of anything, just another reminder that he is confused in his own life.

He has respected my other boundaries, so I don't think he is trying to disrespect me.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home