I'm finding this whole controlling my emotions to be quite empowering.

SS, I love this. It is so true. Having control over how we feel really does feel empowering. I used to always be governed by my feelings and emotions and I realize in hindsight what a mess I was. Now, I am less afraid and find contentment in a lot more of my life than i ever have in the past.
Glad to read you are doing well!

((((( ))))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home