No the plans were made before he said this. When he left no plans were made at all. Even the "every second weekend" arrangement does not seem to work for us. I do all of my D's acticities with her and he hunts and works most weekends. My thereapist said to keep doing what I normally do and not force him to be more involved. So I'm not going to. I'm hoping he will eventually want to spend more time with her but he is living with OW and my D is not allowed to go there so that rules out overnight visits with him at her house. I'm not sure he has planned and he doesn't tell me.
