Your life can not be put on hold for his convenience. Ad long as you don't have schedule motives to deny access to your D, then that is what it is.
Possibly you need a more definitive time schedule so plans can be made accordingly.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012