eventually the hope becomes that you WILL have a better life with or without your spouse.

I agree with this completely AS. I am feeling this more and more personally and its...liberating.

Glad to hear you are doing well and look forward to the interesting update in your sitch!


((((( )))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home