Considering all you have been going through it sounds like you are doing well for yourself LS. Your posts show strength and hope.
Where's the D process at presently?
The happiness she's jumping on is only short term, I believe. She will look back and regret trashing you and your family one day.
If you find that De'fogging machine I'd sure like to borrow it when you're finished with it.
The D process is filed, she asked me to not sign it. Of course i was the one who brought up the D..I am debating if i should just sign it at the end of the 6 months or wait for her to sign it 1st. I am thinking, if things are going well, i need to sign it, to show her that I am moving on and I can't keep waiting for ever.
As for her happiness, she isn't having it right now because everybody is against her (except for her friends (new good friends). She is in a really bad mood and can't sleep because of her actions. But i think she is determined to ride it out because she thinks the OM is worth it or she thinks she really doesn't love me. All i know is my bounderies on the OM are "if he moves up" or "Physical sex" for me it will be over and I won't wait. I may slide on the Physical side..but knowing me, i am not sure i can get it over (weird because emotional affair i think is more damaging)
If i find that De'fogging machine...i will be sure to let you borrow it 1st
