trying to save my marriage Phase 2

[Am I Too Late]

I can tell you what i was informed.

Firstly, my W moved out 9 1/2 months ago after 3 years of affairs and depression after her mother passed away and no intimacy.

She rarely visits or calls our S-9.

My S has said many things to me in private, such as, "I thought i would be sad, but I'm only a little sad and i don't miss Mommy that much, because she's never around and doesn't do anything with us anyways".

I was told to Not tell her, as that would be construed as manipulative and trying to guilt her and be pushing her even farther away.

They said that she would eventually find out on her own and it was not my responsibility to share that type of information with her anyways.

Ed