Considering all you have been going through it sounds like you are doing well for yourself LS. Your posts show strength and hope.

Where's the D process at presently?

The happiness she's jumping on is only short term, I believe. She will look back and regret trashing you and your family one day.

If you find that De'fogging machine I'd sure like to borrow it when you're finished with it.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl