It's really hard for me to think this is even the same person I lived with for 20 plus years.

Someone please remind me that he is in pain right and now and this isn't the essence of who he is. How can someone behave so badly and not be a bad person?

Struggling with this today. He has behaved like a genuinely mean and nasty person. So, how can he not be a genuinely mean and nasty person?

Hard for my brain to wrap around.

I think the OW must be really harsh and insensitive. That would be the opposite of me for sure. I'm too much the other way.

Whatever, back to teaching now.

Thanks Snodderly for the kind words. It helps.

Heather

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

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