3 Years after D-Day, part 2. Separated 9 Months.

[Am I Too Late]

Yesterday was the 4 year anniversary of my W's mother going into the hospital and then being placed in a coma before she eventually passed away 2 1/2 months later.

My W has a hard time with those eventful dates that turned her life upside down.

Should i acknowledge that with a message to her to offer empathy?

Or, would i just be a reminder that dark period?

That is the preceding event that led to her alcohol relapse and subsequent affairs.

Ed

I did not contact her to empathize with that 4 year anniversary date of her mother going into the hospital. She may have pushed that out of her mind and I could have only reminded her of that trauma on her life.

I went to the movie theater yesterday instead of going to the library as planned. We saw, "Wreck It Ralph", which was very good entertainment.

Well, W had "Promised" that she would assist financially, even with an amount that was very negligible, but her $75.00 did not rank highly enough to follow through woth, but she was at a bar till closing time.

I wonder if the lack of response o get here is due to my situation seeming so hopeless, or if i have not demonstrated enough GAL activities yet.

I do personally need help and encouragement to get through this and move forward to get on with my life.

Ed