Well, to pass the time in my SSM, here's an amusing and irksome reminder I see every single day on TV.
All those Viagra, Cialis, etc. commercials -- All those happy guys who got their erections back, and their smiling happy wives who supposedly are delighted to have a functional husband again. Uh huh, yeah, right. Let me tell you guys, before you go to your doctor and ask if your heart is healthy enough for sex and you waste your co-pay on Viagra, you better ask your wives if they are interested in resuming sex. Because the stats are that about half of all women have a reduction in sexual desire after menopause. But the commercials are never going to say, "Ask your wife if she is ready for sex." The answer will be no in more cases than asking if your heart is healthy enough for sex.
I'd bet that Viagra sales would go up considerably if there were also a pink pill that could be prescribed for the wives at the same time.
Those Viagra commercials always make me laugh, because the ludicrous assumption is that all women can't wait for their husbands to have an erection.
There is a female version of cialis that causes increased desire in females. Also PT-141.
But if your wife doesn't want to want increased desire, there's nothing you can do about that.