I had no intention of contacting him about this. Simply wondered if it was advisable to mention when he returned. I feel that because he wants to continue the charade of marriage I should be able to communicate some things with him. (Keeping in mind that he has limited human abilities.)

H was home early yesterday morning - in bed when I returned from the early morning drop off of S19 to his job. I entered the bedroom and he grabbed me in a hug. ??? Then he brought up how the roads had been bad where he was and I used that segue to bring up contacting me so that the children and I might not worry.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.