Husband left in September. I need HELP

[Cadet]

First of all, you need to stop making new posts all over. This would be a good place to make your permanent posting area.

Agreed,

I posted here but stick with this thread here in newcomers, it gets the most traffic.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2302558&#Post2302558

You can answer me here, and Mr Bond has excellent advice!