You are right in your evaluation of my learning style. Perhaps that, in conjunction with the fact that I came to this site to get help with interpersonal skills rather than philosophical/zen/meaning of life sort of discussions, is why I'm having such difficulty with this. I'm just not seeing this theme on any other threads. Rather, I understand the problems, I understand the advice, I see the growth and changes. I didn't think my issues/problems were so unearthly that they required some super-human/out-of-body sort of approach. I'm glad it's helping some, but it's lost on me. Sorry.
I just want to figure out a way to interact with my H, whether for 6 years until I leave, or for life if that's possible. I don't need a fairytale, just a peaceful co-existence.
