Of course it tears you up. What kind of husband would you be if it did not? He is the complete opposite of you right? If it's like my situation was, then she is playing games with you. Mine did that several times - trying to make me jealous like a high schooler. I didn't bite and I'm glad I didn't. Later she told me her intentions. It was surreal, but it is what it is. Don't fall for the games, Sunny. You won't be happy or true to yourself if you do. That's not a woman's game - that's a child's game. AJ
Thanks AJ I realize a lot of this is true - but in my heart I feel she is so past me and our marriage she won't even make the sign of peace with me at mass
What do you think I should do about our anniversary on Friday ??
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!