My H said today it seemed as though I didn't care he was around (he visits our house on the weekends & spends the majority of the day), but I keep busy and don't really spend my time hanging around him so much. Play games w kids, grocery shop, clean house, etc.
And the superficial pleasantries--OMG-I just posted something almost exactly like that on my thread!
Finally, my decisions thus far are ALL ABOUT MY KIDS...like allowing H to come/go from house & spending as much time here as he wants (good for kids). FLying to my parents on CHristmas day (as opposed to staying here that day to spend w my H) I decided was better for THEM (as it is ALWAYS what we do).
And my youngest son definitely opens up to me about his feelings of his dad moving out vs. talking to his dad. So, over time I feel like residual feelings of resentment may build up & they will know which parent is HERE TO STAY and which may or may not be here, depending on his mood/future choices.
Sounds like you are doing all the right things, so...I guess I'll visit your thread to pick up some tips!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
