I honestly don't know if I could ever take him back. I'm still standing, because at this point I refuse to file for divorce because the problems that we had before this weren't enough to end a marriage and I want him to be the one to end it if he's done.
I guess I'm frustrated because he can decide he's not happy and just move on to another young girl and leave me behind to deal with everything. I'm not the one who wants a new start, with a new person so I shouldn't have to do the paperwork. I shouldn't have to "fix" everything to make his life easier.
And it's funny that ever since OW finally decided to start dating him that he has no time to talk to me and his wish for us to be friends doesn't seem so important any more. I'm a very good judge of character and never saw this coming.
Ya. I never saw it coming either . I would have trusted H if he said jump off this bridge last week. But now that he has been lying, it puts into question the entire relationship.
H doesn't need you to be a "friend" anymore, because he feels he doesn't need a backup. I say "I want a husband, not a friend" and while I can be civil, polite and nice, I don't have to be your friend. His loss SBR.
I was so upset last week about OW that I was ready to file, but you know what? I agree. You want the divorce, you do the work!
. I would have trusted H if he said jump off this bridge last week. But now that he has been lying, it puts into question the entire relationship.