Wow great advice 25, I'm going to take a little of it as well. LL I wish you luck, let me know how your doing please.
Of course I smell the sarcasm dripping from your post about them having the perfect R lol. However our minds tend to drift in that direction, we put ourselves down and raise them up. When it should be the other way around.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.