I ultimately think a woman wants to see strength in her H. This is es Ecia.ly true if there has been weakness has been often displayed to the point she has lost respect for him.
If you are feeling deep remorse for the pain you caused. I see that as being progress. You are asking if she should see you shed tears or a controlled expression. What has she seen in the past? What would be real?
Let me stress this point, okay? Don't use any emotion, or anything else, as an instrument to make her do what you want her to do. And I'm not suggesting that you are not legitimately torn up right now. But don't think that tears will work in your favor with her.......nor will they work against you. It's remorse you need to feel b/c that will help you truly change for a better man. It may have helped if she could have seen this sorrow as you told her how wrong you had treated her, but don't call her up right now!
I don't know if I answered your question. Don't be afraid to show tears, if they happen. But neither believe it would help your case, b/c just thinking it would lose it. I think there is a place, time, and reason for tears in men. The strongest man in my life was not afraid to show tears.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
