Husband left in September. I need HELP

[MrBond]

First of all, you need to stop making new posts all over. This would be a good place to make your permanent posting area.

Second, I see that you started as a member here back in 2005. What happened there?

Third, from reading your other posts, it gave me the impression that you didn't appreciate your H for the things that he did do. I read alot about what you've done, how you do more or better than he does, etc. Hate to be blunt, but with an attitude like that, you will end up without him. If being married is important to you, then you need to start appreciating and noticing your H for the things he had done for you in the past.

What were the things that attracted you to him? Aside from the children, what makes him a man you would like to stay with?

And lastly, you need to adjust your attitude. You may think you can multi-task, be a great mom, businesswoman, etc. but no one likes being with a woman who rubs that in their face. You say you get angry alot at him, basically because he's not living up to YOUR expectations. Let's put it this way...would you like him to impose expectations on you? Of course not. So why should have to live up to what YOU expect? A marriage is alot about compromise and not always being right all the time. It's the expectations that get you angry. If you start getting rid of those, then you'll do much better. And it's a better way to live.