Sandi2 We got together when I was 18 and he was 21. I was always finacially savvy so I started taking care of all of the bills. Little by little I did more and more. I have a type A personality and I can multi task and handle a lot of stuff. I feel like the more I can handle the more that I am given to do. I am more goal oriented and wanted a certain lifestyle. I worked for it and he is more relaxed. He is now working really hard at our business but I still have more responsiblities at work. I started the company and he joined a few years later so I was already doing most of the work.
I am still angry but not like I was two months ago. I have accepted what he has done but I still don't like it. I just wanted to move past it and think I can appreciate that this separation will bring about good change.
I knew he was much more relaxed than I am from the beginning but I was young and he treated me with love and it was a whole different relationship so it didn't matter. I am still ok with the amount of work but I want him to appreciate it rather than tell me so what you are tired I work too.
M12 Kids 2 ILYBINILWY 08/05 Reconciled 05/06 S07/12 Moved back 03/13 Separated Again 06/24/13 Back Again (his choice) 02/14 Leaving again 03/23/14 DIVORCED 02/15