my comment was in response to Your answer to her when
she asked what you were doing in terms of action and follow up with your new career goal.
That's when YOU told her that you are in "financial limbo" and THEN you asked her to keep supporting you so you can DO something different
and I'm thinking she needs you to be self sufficient.
Bankruptcy isn't the nightmare some think it is, IF the alternative is never getting out of debt, and or losing a home and getting hits to your credit rating ANYHOW
and whatever other personal costs exist too...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016