How can I get her to look at DB, and quickly? I know it is patience, but time does not seems to be on our side. I was stupid and left the book for her 2 months ago and she gave it right back. I do want my marriage....not he recent one, but rather the one for the first 10-11 years, and even betetr. We treasured that. Litigation and divorce is clearly worse than working it out. She seems so blind to the hurt in my kids eyes and their actions. I would do anything to get her to meet Michele with me in Boulder CO.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
