Block them from Facebook! You can block their names specifically, go into custom settings and customized each setting one by one. You can even block your comments to you S from being seen by others.

You are totally right and need to 100 percent put your foot down, take control, and not let the crazy person run you life. I was sad to read about your D's they seem to be taking a big hit from H, do they look like you, remind him of you?

I agree he is totally being led by ow (hence the specific things after the call) she is in control and loving it. She is feeding off of the excitement like a junkie, but one day this high will fall way down and I think your in control of a lot of that.

I have been told number one here to stop talking and reacting. It's hurting you to fight against crazy people, so yes, change the locks, stop the calls, reroute visitations to his dad's. Anything you can do to get H away from your life.

I don't know how it is state to state, but he left your home. I was told that means he walked away from some rights, one being that he can't just come and go anymore if you don't want him. Maybe look into your rights as a LBS.

You are in a very hard situation and I pray for your strength, safety, your home and kids. Your H is far gone from you (right now) make him a guest in your life at your own discretion.


The past can't be ahead of you in the future.
You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction.
What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!