3 Years after D-Day, part 2. Separated 9 Months.

[Am I Too Late]

Yesterday was the 4 year anniversary of my W's mother going into the hospital and then being placed in a coma before she eventually passed away 2 1/2 months later.

My W has a hard time with those eventful dates that turned her life upside down.

Should i acknowledge that with a message to her to offer empathy?

Or, would i just be a reminder that dark period?

That is the preceding event that led to her alcohol relapse and subsequent affairs.

Ed