The more you insist to her that it's fixable, the more insistently she needs to feel that there's no other solution than out. Because that is how she feels and you aren't accepting it.
Perhaps it would be better if you avoided R talks entirely.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
