And Bruce, as you read thru all of this, anytime you find yourself thinking "Yes, but wife did X and so I did Y." Stop and remember that you responsible for your choices, your actions, your behavior.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss