Busting-lots of great advice. I must say, the thought of moving somewhere new would be exciting to me as well. I had thought of teaching in different places, while H and I were still together with the idea of exploring different retirement sites etc. and I still like the idea of traveling.

Thing is, if you move to Dubai, it has to be with no expectation from H at all, and you are not at that place in your heart or mind yet.

Pros and Cons: Dubai and Sudan (and maybe Egypt) Jobs? Support system? Schools for kids? Activities for you? HOusing?