Second....Irma, I admire your Faith in God. If you want to stand then stand. I am pretty sure it says in the Bible, no matter if we are divorced,(if this is our first h or wife),then they STILL are! If says something about if the other remarries they are committing adultry against us. Look it up.
After my xh left me, I went to Church pretty regular. I had been praying for a prophet to come to me. I prayed for some word from God as to what to do. One night at Church, I had been praying for God to send me a word. I was praying he would send me a prophet to propheise (misspelled), to me. This little old lady got up to testify and she said....My h left me for another woman yrs. ago. She said she prayed and prayed about what to do. 17 yrs. later...YES 17 YEARS!!!!!, there was a knock at her door. It was her h. He said "I'm home"....she said..."Come on in, I've been waiting"! What a great testimony AND there was my word! No doubt in my heart. I dont know if what you call what I been doing is right or if I am standing but I know THAT was my word.
Irma CLAIM IT! God will give us the desire's of our Hearts. We just have to have Faith!!!! and Claim it....hold on to it.
(on a side not, this makes the 4th time I have typed this to share and it kept deleting itself.....the devil obviously didn't won't no one to read this....but guess what? I didnt give in to him.)