JJ,
HI, It sounds like you are DBing well! And, you've definitely come to the right place.

My H too is in a MLC triggered by the illness & recent passing of his mother. We have been M-17 and T20. We have 3 boys.

Use your girls as a source of strength.

Read as much as you can about MLC--I'm still learning. You seem to have so much clarity about things as they stand w H & why he's where he is.

Are there arny 180s you've been doing? What kind of GAL things have you incorporated in your life to fill the void of your H's emotional absence?

Glad you found us here!

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.