Heather, looking back I too have been so so naive. My mum was always treated so badly by my dad, he would have screwxd a pipe...he was a philanderer not MLC however he was a good dad but a lousy husband and if he were here today he'd agree with that.
I always felt grateful for having a man who would always put me first (little did I know). So I can see where I am in my mums shoes, i.e no family around to have support from, have 3 kids raise with no help from him. BUT this was our first thanksgiving without my H and I dreaded it but we did OK better than I thought it would be...so Ifeel positive about that and thats a start
Thank the lord for this forum as I'd be lost without it <3
Hang in there Heather, everytime I read your updates I see you getting stonger oxoxoxo
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending
