Hi KLB,
Sorry you are here. I'm relatively new here too, but noticed no one had replied to you yet.

All I can say right now is 'keep your chin up' as I'm still learning this DB stuff.

And, some really wise and caring folks on here will be responding soon enough with great advice and insight.

None of it is easy to take.

The only advice I feel qualified to give is read, read, read, the DR book and these forums.

good luck.

Ps. Oh yeah, they'll certainly ask for more details, so get your history prepared to share

Me 46 W 43
S 21 D 18 S 17
M 22 yrs
Discovered OM 9/10/12
W moved to sister's 9/15/12
W moved to OM 9/27/12
Tried to DB until 7/13
W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve.
I counter filed 12/2/13.