Realistic Optimist Hard At Work

[25yearsmlc]

JAG

I asked some questions in my many LONG posts to you. Please respond to them. Otherwise I get the impression you skim things and if the "secret" answer isn't revealed, you just move on and post another event.

You have to take in what we say and PROCESS it and see what NEW BEHAVIORS YOU can engage in and what seems to be working in your m.

You've been in this weird situation for over a year now? Are those dates right? She told you 22 months ago she's not "in love"?

IF SO, how long are you willing to wait?

What else are you willing to do that is new and different and might work?

One thing you have not done, which is only to be done when you are out of other options (but that day could come...soon_)

Is give an ultimatum.

I ONLY suggest it IF & WHEN YOU are ready to follow through with it.

But if you've been married for 4 years and half of it has been mediocre, at best,

then you need to ask yourself if THIS marriage to THIS woman, is what you want

or if it's more about YOU not wanting to lose.

Do you know what I'm asking you?