Why would you expect her to commit so quickly? This has been going on for how many years?

How committed are you?

Drop your time line. I think this is good stuff, baby steps.

And she's given you a roadmap.

You can't talk you way out of something you've acted your way into.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss