Questions Another thought that I ponder is that some days I am just fine and dandy - living in the Now - no worries about H. And I wonder if that's OK? I mean it's great for me but if I am great without H - why am I not done?
In my experience, relationships have a life span which seems to be independent of our say in the matter. I know that I've stayed in relationships well beyond their shelf life but the fact is they just aren't over until they're over. The inner knowing may come well before the heart catches up and the body follows suit. Or something shifts in the relationship through grace and you find each other again.
It's perfectly OK for you to be feeling fine and dandy. Just enjoy it! The R will find its level.
You do sound on great form, Tumbling. Enjoy your new purple bag!
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012