But I would recommend that you make this decision based on your reality right now. The reality that your H is not with you and doesn't indicate he wants to come back now. You cannot bank on moving there just to stay close to him in case there is a possible reconciliation.
YOu need to think of what is best for Busting and your kids only and leave your H out of the equation. As it is, his relationship with his kids now is already as if he lives in another country, even though he "lives" in Sudan...
You are right. I cannot make this decision based on anything but reality at the moment.
My brain is buzzing with scenarios I must say. I just got a glimpse of being able to be there divorced. It could be exciting.
This obviously means that I need to just let it all settle like you have all said, and let the answer come. I will keep throwing thoughts out and really dig deep to see what it is I can do. I think my initial thoughts were all based in fear. Fear of change..again. And I know that is not what we are supposed to be doing. Holding back out of fear.
Thank you for you post KG. So very thoughtful and detailed. :-) I will go back and reread it to absorb more.
Have you chosen not to go back to Mexico City so that your kids can stay close to H as well?
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TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
