I like what Ruby said: "I need a husband not a friend" I feel the same way. Our R's with our H's have changed so much, but at least we have the power to define the way we want these R's to be, and if our H's don't agree, then there's nothing we can do about it except for being patient with both ourselves and our H's...until we know we don't want to be patient anymore, or our H's make the decision for us.
