So had Thanksgiving without the W. She had her family over to her new apartment. My W asked if I wanted to see a movie with her yesterday and I agreed. So we met for a late lunch, went to see Life of Pi and then met some friends for drinks. Lets just say a bit uncomfortable and my W said something about me being distant. What am I supposed to be...All lovey dovey? I was tired, but did try to interact in the conversation.
After the trip to Turkey, she said that she would talk to me soon...I guess that really means that she'll text every couple of days about something that centered around her and what she needed or wants me to do. On Thanksgiving I get text of Happy Thanksgiving and hope I have a good day. WOW--It's been wonderful---NOT!
Last night when she was heading back to her apartment she said again, talk to you soon...So I made a gesture of shrugging my shoulders in the "whatever" meaning. Probably not a good thing, but it just happened. She was annoyed and asked what did that mean. I said that she could call or not that was her choice. Needless to say she left mad. So she can say whatever she wants but, I should keep my mouth shut.
We seems to be drifting further apart and she only wants to interact with me when she needs me to watch "her" dog or if she wants something from the house. It seems she is still being very selfish...I can honestly say this is not what I wanted for my life and I am seriously considering seeing a lawyer after the holidays. Maybe I'm just too weak for all of her issues and mine. I just want to be happy and be beside someone who will support me and love me. I feel the conversation we had on before the trip to Turkey was a manipulation to get me to go on the trip so she wouldn't look bad to her family.
Yesterday she asked if I told our friends what was going on. I said no, that I did not want to spend Thanksgiving day talking about her and our relationship issues. She said, OH. I then went on to remind her that she was the one who had asked me not to say anything to my family when I went to visit. She acted like she couldn't remember that conversation.
Who is this person that I'm married to because I have no idea who this person anymore.
Does anyone read these and have any comments?
M-49 W-47 M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994 No Children 4 dogs/2 cats EA 11/2010 Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us) As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...
